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A Letter to Myself Before My Wedding Day.

Dearest self, 

                     Hey! So, you’re getting married next day. I wanted to ask if you’re ready for that but you’re obviously readier than the word ready. 🙂 I’m so happy for you. And if you are excited, I think I’m more than excited. 

                     Who thought it would be Ace? He must be very lucky. See, you’ve been to different places, who thought you’d only find him on a dating site? Oh, I know you’re smiling while remembering that first day when you responded to that ‘hi‘ on Tagged. hahah 😀 I can still feel those butterflies, too. Don’t worry, I won’t judge you still feeling that after two years. After all, you are in love. 

                     Anyway, I trust Ace for you. I know you’ll be in good hands. I’m sure you’re aware that marriage life is not always sunshine…so learn to share each other’s umbrella and surpass the storm together. I can see on his eyes that he will take care of you, and you should take care of him in return. I know you’re a spoiled brat, but I think Ace could handle that. Just not too much, please. 🙂 

                     After your wedding, your individual differences will eventually show up. I hope you’re ready for that. Hold on, and talk about it. Don’t allow him to change you, at the same time, don’t try to change him. Accept his flaws and I’m sure he would do the same. I know how high is your pride, please learn to swallow it when it comes to your life together. You are one, so work as one. 

                      You are not just a wife, but his partner, too. Understand him and be patient. Support his decision because he is your husband. Love his family like he loves yours. Don’t forget to tell him ‘Iloveyou‘ everyday. Don’t get mad when he forgets your anniversary (hmmm), remind him if that happens. 

                       One more thing, don’t worry if you can’t bear a baby…Ace loves you more than that. Don’t think you can’t be a family without an offspring. By the time you say ‘I do!’, you two became a family. Spend your life together. Dedicate your life in lending a hand to those who need most. Be happy and contented with each other. You two are a family.

                        I’m really happy for you, dearie. I pray all the best for both of you. Congratulations! Give my best regards to him. 

 

Love, 

Your beautiful self.

 

P.S Please, love yourself, too. I want to see that same sparkle on your eyes after 50 years. Take care. 

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Hi, there!.. :) I'm Emz, a frustrated writer/blogger from a far-flung place of Cebu, Philippines. I love reading and writing, and if there's two things I can't live without, it would be my pen and my notebook. I have the love for food and travel. I am optimistic and I am a dreamer. Thus, Side by Side is more like me. Here are tidbits of life, inspiration, places, people and myself. Welcome to Side by Side! Thank you for dropping by. :)

22 thoughts on “A Letter to Myself Before My Wedding Day.

  1. Today is your day as I write these words! I can’t wait to see pics for I know you will be breathtaking!!! My prayers as you enter into matrimony is that the Lord will remain the strongest of the three cords in your braided Union. Blessings to you Emzlee!😇

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  2. Awwww …. I need a tissue 😭 I can definitely take a lesson on being sweet to yourself here 🙂 Good luck to you both ❤ ❤ ❤

    Oh and, that anniversary thing: through the years I've learned the best approach is to consider anything my husband does to commemorate it a bonus XD I don't know what's with anniversaries (or husbands) but the two do not usually play nice with each other XD XD I just go ahead and ask him a few days before how he wants to celebrate it. I've never been one to leave my happiness (special dates) in others' hands (wink!). Especially to busy & forgetful husbands (wink! wink!) XD XD

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